Essence Love to the depths is humble

"When she met him, she became very low, as low as the dust, but she was happy in her heart, and flowers bloomed from the dust." When Zhang Ailing fell in love with Hu Lancheng, she said that when a woman falls in love with a man, she will become very low, as low as the dust. So, when I was alone, I often thought, how could such a proud and talented woman be willing to sink into the dust for a man, and then bloom flowers of joy from the dust?
Later, I slowly felt relieved. Perhaps, in Zhang Ailing's melancholy life, Hu Lancheng was the love of her life at that time. Perhaps, in front of the person she loves, a person will willingly lower himself, and will involuntarily lower himself. No matter how low he lowers himself, he will still be happy in his heart.
Some people say that loving deeply is humble. Yes, if you love deeply, this love must refer to true love or true love, and humility must also be a humble and tolerant heart.
But the humility shown by a person to the person he loves does not mean that the person has lost his dignity or lost his dignity in front of the person he loves. In fact, any love is sacred, has dignity, and cannot be blasphemed. Humility is just a kind of respect and care for the people you love.
In fact, no matter how humble the life, no matter how humble the soul, no matter how humble the love, can still bloom the most delicate and beautiful flowers in the world. In every seemingly humble heart, there is a deep love.
This love may be completely different from the romance in front of flowers and under the moon, the hustle and bustle of drinking and drinking, and the gentleness of singing and dancing.
Perhaps, this love is too plain, like a clear spring, without the dazzling waves; too peaceful, like a pot of tea, without the endless aftertaste. Perhaps, this love is too straight, like a wisp of breeze, missing Pingting's graceful figure; too peaceful, like a landscape painting, missing the rich and colorful rendering.
We often complain that he doesn't care enough for us and doesn't have deep compassion for us. We have ignored some small and trivial chapters in our lives, and these small and trivial chapters often contain our seemingly shallow love. This love may be insignificant, it may be as plain as water, but it can be like a long stream of water, slowly nourishing every corner of our souls.
Maybe, on a cold winter night, he will hold your cold feet tightly in his warm arms; maybe, when you stand in front of the window and contemplate the distance, he will put a piece of clothes on you silently; maybe, when you are feeling unwell, he will bring you a cup of warm boiled water. It's just that we have been together for too long, and we have gradually become indifferent to this emotion, and we cannot feel the tenderness and care infiltrated in the subtleties.
Sometimes, a person's humble act is just an expression of love and tolerance of affection. This person puts himself at the lowest point of human nature with a look-down mentality, and puts the other person at the highest point of life with an attitude of admiration. In fact, such people are worthy of our respect and admiration.
Perhaps, the most profound truth often comes from the most ordinary things, and the deepest love often comes from the humblest behavior. These seemingly humble actions actually contain a love that can warm a person for a lifetime. Love sometimes does not need to be expressed in words and can span time and space.
If you love someone, you must learn to suffer yourself. Since a person is willing to love another person, he should not care about how much or how little he has to pay, or whether he has gained or lost. Love, since you love, love turns from a feeling into a responsibility.
However, who can clearly explain love or not love, humbleness or sublimity in this world of mortals?


Reprinted on the evening of February 16, 2012