"A woman's heart is like a needle at the bottom of the sea" is absolutely true. Women generally lack a sense of security and often tirelessly ask men boring questions. These questions may give you a headache, but for them, it's a trial and error in love! How to cleverly answer and win her heart? Large Image Example 1: After she introduces her best friend to you, she comes home and asks: What do you think of my friend? Wrong answer A: She's quite beautiful. Wrong answer B: Not great, she's far worse than you. Wrong answer C: I haven't paid much attention to her. Standard answer: I think she's quite sincere with you and should cherish such a friend. Explanation: Answer A is simply looking for a pickpocket. Women absolutely cannot allow you to praise other women in front of them (of course, mothers are excluded). Answer B sounds so fake; Answer C: You probably think that's a clever answer, but she wouldn't believe it at all. Plus, she'll start imagining and analyze why you're unwilling to evaluate her friends. So, avoid the question and answer in a roundabout way, so she feels that everything you do is for her and that she'll feel cared for. Example 2: Do you love me? False answer A: I do. Wrong answer B: Is that even necessary? Wrong answer C: Are you annoyed? Standard answer: Look at her lovingly for three seconds, then nod affectionately, say "mm," and pull her into your arms...... Explanation: Answer A will make her think you're too careless and just messing with her; Answer B makes her feel your love for her isn't firm enough, and she'll keep asking for a clear answer, which is annoying; After answer C, there's definitely a big fight or a cold war. Actually, women know very well whether a man loves her. If she asks this way, she's just flirting. Hugging and kissing her makes her happier than answering anything. Example 3: Do you think my outfit looks good? Wrong answer A: It looks pretty good. Wrong answer B: It's okay. Wrong answer C: It looks great, my wife looks good in anything. Standard answer: Come on, come on, let me see what she wears...... After she shyly finished spinning around, pull her over, smile at her, and say: It really looks pretty good. Explanation: Answer A makes her feel that you are just dealing with her; Answer B makes her feel insecure; in her mind, whatever she wears should be considered good;But if you really say she looks good, like answer C, she will think you are speaking sweetly but insincerely. So, to show that you are taking her question seriously, you must look carefully before answering.
Example 4: Do you think I'm fat?
Wrong answer A: Not fat.
Wrong answer B: Seems like you are.
Wrong answer C: Oh, have you been too tired recently? How did you get so skinny?
Correct answer: Come here, let me hug you, and after hugging, say: I like you like this, a little chubby.
Explanation: Answer A is too blunt and unsatisfying to hear. Answer B is purely asking for trouble; how can a girl like hearing that she's fat? Even if you repeatedly emphasize that you like some extra weight, she will still feel unhappy. Answer C sounds so fake; nowadays, women are not so easily fooled. Actually, in a woman's heart, she still hopes the man doesn't care about her weight. Although she says she's dieting for you, she actually wants to be prettier and wear more beautiful clothes for herself. So, using body language to show that you like her being a bit chubby is enough.
Example 5: If I get old and ugly, will you still love me?
Wrong answer A: Impossible, you will still look good when you're old.
Wrong answer B: Women of different ages have charms in different stages...
Wrong answer C: It's okay, when you get old, I won't look much better either, so neither of us should complain about each other.
Correct answer: I can't wait for you to get a little ugly and old; then I would feel more at ease keeping you at home.
Explanation: Answer A makes her happy when she hears it, but she knows it's absolutely impossible; answer B, stop immediately, it's too preachy; answer C implies she will look bad when old, how can she accept that? So, the smartest answer is to both dispel her worries and let her know that you especially care about her and fear losing her.
