Teach You Mind Reading

1. To judge a man's taste, look at his shoes.
2. To see if a woman has inner qualities, watch her walk.
3. To see a person's vitality, look at their hair.
4. To understand a person's intentions, look at their eyes.
5. To know a person's worth, observe their opponents.
6. To see a person's hidden cards, look at their close friends.
7. To judge a person's character, look at their handwriting.
8. To see if a person is truly happy, don't look at their smile, but observe their expression the moment they wake up in the morning.
9. To understand a person's tolerance, see how they face failure and betrayal.
10. To judge the relationship between two people, observe the other person's tension when an accident occurs.
11. If you want to know if someone truly loves you, see if they think of you when they are happy, not when they are sad.
12. If you want to know if someone is your soulmate, see if they resonate with you mentally, not whether you tell them everything.
13. If you want to know if someone is your real friend, see if they would go to great lengths to help you in difficulty, not just dine and drink with you daily.
14. If you want to know if someone has a loving heart, see if they like small animals.
15. If you want to know if someone is well-mannered, see if they give up their seat for the elderly and children on the bus.
16. If you want to know if someone has good character, see if they love taking petty advantages.
17. If you want to know if someone has magnanimity, see if they speak ill of others behind their backs.
18. If you want to know if someone is lying, watch their eyes when they speak; the eyes reveal everything.
19. If you want to know if someone cares about you, see if they remember what you once said.20. If you want to know whether someone cares about you, see if they think to remind you to dress warmly when the weather is cool.
21. If you want to know how important you are in someone's heart, see if they remember your birthday or anniversary.
22. If you want to know whether a man is particular, see if his shoes are clean.
23. If you want to know whether a man is worth loving, see whether he has a loving heart and a sense of responsibility, not whether he has status or money.
24. If you want to know whether a boy is worth loving, look at his inner qualities, not his appearance; see if he is lovable because he is handsome, not handsome because he is lovable.
Girls should also: speak slowly about urgent matters;
speak clearly about important matters;
speak humorously about trivial matters;
speak cautiously about uncertain matters;
not speak recklessly about things that haven't happened;
not speak carelessly about things they cannot do; not say things that hurt others;
about things they dislike, address the matter, not the person;
about happy matters, speak according to the occasion;
about sad matters, do not tell everyone you meet;
about others, speak carefully;
about yourself, listen to your own heart;
about present matters, do first then speak;
about future matters, speak in the future.
You do not need to disclose everything about others; leave some space for people, and some discretion for yourself.
You do not need to be harsh when holding others accountable; leave some space for people, and some tolerance for yourself.
You do not need to show off all your talent; leave some space for people, and some depth for yourself.
You do not need to reveal all your sharpness; leave some space for people, and some restraint for yourself.
You do not need to claim all credit for achievements; leave some space for people, and some humility for yourself.
You do not need to insist on being right in every argument; leave some space for people, and some leniency for yourself.