Essence [Shallow] Helping each other in times of difficulty, forgetting each other in the rivers and lakes.
Haha, I've been in a bad mood these past few days. I'm going out to clear my mind, so I won't be on the forum. If you have anything to say, please leave a message, but Qian may not necessarily reply. Main Text Emotional Destination—Mutual Support or Forgetting Each Other in the World? "When the spring dries up, the fish are on land together with me, supporting each other with a little spittle; it's better to forget each other in the world." — Zhuangzi, Master Great Doctrine Chapter Perhaps there are two kinds of emotions that can be called love in the world: one is mutual support, and the other is forgetting each other in the world. "Mutual support" is touching; the love story of the Tian Ti in Chongqing is so moving that it will always touch every future generation; "Forgetting each other in the world" in a true love story is more of a painful choice, an unavoidable approach. If you can stay together, who would choose to part ways? If you can love each other, who would choose to forget each other? We have deeply loved some people. When loving, we treat the days and nights as eternal, treat a fleeting intimacy as a lifetime of love, thus we make promises, thus we extravagantly hope to hold each other's hand and grow old in happiness. Then everything disappears, and we finally understand how rare and improbable eternity is, and how mysterious and fragile happiness is. In a lifetime, how many emotional connections can one have? When you and I have already experienced mutual support, and also gone through separation. But do we really proceed to "forget each other in the world"? Do we really start another relationship? We go through mutual support, miss the opportunity, and finally disappear into "forgetting each other in the world." Many people quickly start another emotional relationship, continuing until old age. It is said that fish memory lasts only seven seconds, so they constantly repeat the tragedy of being caught, released, and caught again. Aren't human emotions the same? Emotions get hurt, forgotten, and hurt again. We learn to take things lightly, to not force them, to hide deeply, to bury you in a place untouched by the dust of time. In fact, how hypocritical we are, yet how strong. Everyone sees my strong exterior, but can they feel the bitter taste in my heart?Only, only when I see the sea, my heart surges and chokes, because you and I both came from the other side of the sea. Only, only when I pass through every place in this city that I walked with you, suddenly some past events resurface, making me afraid to walk casually in this city. Only, only your hometown and the city where you are now have become sensitive elements. Only, only late at night, on some rainy days, especially on sleepless nights, you still faintly fade in and out of my heart; fading out, fading in, unable to take away, unable to erase. Only, only on certain special days and holidays when we are together, my heart feels intense sorrow. The love that can no longer continue, the love that once supported each other, has not disappeared into oblivion; it is just desperately suppressed within the heart. Please always remember the feelings in your heart and by your side.
