When a friend is in pain and sorrow, perhaps he does not need too much persuasion and guidance. What he needs may just be a friend who squats down beside him and makes a mushroom with him.
There was a mental patient who thought he was a mushroom, so he squatted in the corner of the room holding an umbrella every day, neither eating nor drinking, just like a real mushroom. The psychiatrist came up with a solution.
One day, the psychiatrist also held an umbrella and squatted next to the patient. The patient asked strangely: Who are you? The doctor replied: I am also a mushroom.
The patient nodded and continued making his mushrooms.
After a while, the doctor stood up and walked around the room. The patient asked him: Aren't you a mushroom? How can you walk around?
The doctor replied: Of course mushrooms can walk around!
The patient thought it made sense, so he stood up and walked around.
After a while, the doctor took out a hamburger and started eating it. The patient asked again: "Aren't you a mushroom? How can you eat?" The doctor replied confidently: Of course mushrooms can also be eaten.
The patient thought it was right, so he started eating. ...
After a few weeks, the patient can live like a normal person, although he still feels like a mushroom.
In fact, a person can continue to live with the trauma of the past. As long as he keeps the sadness in a circle in his heart and does not let the pain infiltrate his entire life, he can live a happy life like a normal person.
When a person is so sad that he cannot control himself, perhaps he does not need too much persuasion and comfort, admonishment and guidance. All he needs is someone to squat down next to him and make a mushroom with him.
I can squat down and make a mushroom with you. I am willing to share your unhappiness, just to hold an umbrella for you when it rains in your world. Please don't close your heart and bear so much alone.
You know. As long as you open your closed eyes, you are never alone. At least I (family) are still there...
