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Introduction: It also took me a long time to find what I
wanted. A year ago, I said to myself, what I want is: freedom, understanding and peace. We must always find what we really want, and then work hard without hesitation. We must always leave a lasting mark in this life.
Pain is a part of life. We are running around in our own lives, and no one is immune to suffering. Some pain is a heavy sigh, some pain is a silent trembling; some pain is lonely soot, some pain is a drop of tears; some pain is a bleeding fist, some pain is a broken heart; some pain is a wailing turned around, and some pain is simply unspeakable.
We often think that we will grow after suffering a lot of pain, but in fact growth is not the accumulation of pain, but the superposition of happiness.
When you rely on your inner strength to overcome pain, and
finally gain happiness, this can be regarded as true
growth. Otherwise, it can only be regarded as a process, but in this process not everyone can get rid of the shadow of pain and shine.
So, never use the amount of pain you experience to measure whether you have grown, whether you are mature, whether you are successful, and whether you are strong enough. Instead, we should learn to enjoy, live with enjoyment, and live every day well.
Even in pain, we must seek happiness from suffering and add happiness to our
growth. After all, we are not living for the painful part of life.
What's more, in real life, some painful efforts are worthless. For example: I bought a duck and it flew away; I wore a new dress and it was torn; I danced with a wild beast, but in the end I found out that he was a beast instead of a cursed prince; I had fun with a beautiful woman, but in the end I found out that she was a beautiful snake and not a white lady, etc. These are the pains we often encounter in life, but they are also the most worthless. It's better not to feel pain and step on it from now on. Even if it hurts, I won't despise it from now on. Don't keep it as a treasure, because it's not worth it.
Some painful efforts are really worthless, just like in today's era, some of the emotional entanglements that are most likely to cause pain
can no longer be described by the harsh world and the lack of human relationships.
Because human nature is the most difficult thing to predict and grasp
in the world. It can be extremely kind or extremely cruel. As for the one in the middle, it may not be stable, because human nature itself is extremely variable, especially in this materialistic society. Therefore, it is better to be brighter, suffer less, enjoy life more, and grow happily in happiness. This is the meaning of growth.
If a city carries too much of your love and dreams, it will make you increasingly alienated from the city. It is better to regard it as a part of life. You don't have to come or go for anyone. You and this city, which is not your birthplace, depend on each other and need each other. Neither one can live without the other. Moreover, wouldn't it be nice to have one more hometown for you to recall, be nostalgic for, and express your feelings for?
Despite this, you still need great courage to truly travel through this city that was once full of love and dreams and return to peace and quiet. But so what? Pain is just a part of life, and we don't live for it. As for dreams, they can still be in dreams, that is part of hope.
And love can still be hidden in the heart, it is a part of life
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Our lives are made up of so many parts, so our talents are brilliant and there are thousands of scenes. The source of courage comes from whether you choose to love or not to love when facing your own life.
Postscript: In many things, you don't work hard only when you see hope, but you work hard only to see hope. Really, I think we should all firmly believe in this, escape from a life of neither getting better nor getting worse, escape from the sadness of self-pity, and have the motivation and courage to work hard.