With ambitious goals unfulfilled, how can one find peace?
The days of being restricted and constrained are gradually increasing. In the webmaster's space, he posts that he is too tired. Perhaps I feel the same way too; of course, I am mentally tired, while the webmaster should be both physically and mentally exhausted. With a big dream in mind, eager to achieve it, fortunately, the smaller goals in the early stages have been accomplished one by one. But as things have developed to the present, it feels like hitting a bottleneck. One regrets not having read enough when the knowledge is needed. The higher I aim in my thinking, the more headache-inducing it becomes. I used to be able to implement my ideas alone, but now, there are many things I feel incapable of handling. This is a phase where ideas alone are hardly enough to succeed. The task is heavy and the road is long. Entrepreneurship itself is hard work. The webmaster has always worked very hard, and I can't hold him back. I will keep fighting!
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What's so tiring about this? Being restricted in your personal space with no way to start, that's what's truly exhausting. I can only keep it in my heart and tell myself: As long as I run with all my strength, what does it matter if I fall spectacularly? If I gain it, I am fortunate. If I lose it, it is my fate; facing it with this attitude, all resentment is nothing more than that.
Why speak so poetically? Saying something lightly and pleasantly in words is really easy. But if you're asked to try writing something good, that really has nothing to do with what you actually do.
Alright, just passing by, chatting casually... but since it was seen through, I have to say: it's time to sleep, good night.
Don't just focus on forums; you need to look outside. Otherwise, if you only entertain yourself, eventually you won't feel any passion at all, at most you'll be left with forum honors like a tiny patch of land…
It has long since begun, and now is the most difficult period in everything, like encountering a crossroads. It could be a turning point, or it could be a dead end. I have always been practicing according to my own ideas, judging right and wrong through practice, but I was blinded by something. Now I am trying to regain the original state of simplicity.
Well... okay... that's true, to put it in one sentence... how Qian pretends... can't hide it from you. For Qian, we can only slow down, slow down the promotion work... take it step by step, there's no rush... just get used to it. Qian has basically been to 7 forums, and life has become: get up, eat, work, go to the forum after work, and finally sleep.
Complaining about being tired shows that you are not smooth enough, just like a wheel, the one with the least friction with the ground can go further! Actually, the web admin is a good person, but doesn't know how to say no, so the input and reward are disproportionate, which can also be more tiring! Another issue is perfectionism causing trouble. Actually, the best approach is to lower your goals a bit, you don't have to be the main character, being a supporting role or extra is easier... Anyway, it all comes down to these points, mindset is very important!
On the forum, I have always been a supporting character. This is something I have deliberately noticed. I haven't really tried to stand out, but in terms of my work, if one says that being ordinary is a blessing, then that would really be like just passing time. If I show such a lack of ambition, then my work would definitely be deemed unqualified.
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