Love comes from a sense of security

In textbooks and in life, there is always the saying that one should marry someone of equal status. It seems the noble way should be to break through worldly ideas, ignore reality, and pursue dreams persistently\but that only sounds like a fairy tale\The environment in which we grow up becomes evident as we grow older\An orange planted south of the Huai River is an orange, planted north of the Huai River it becomes a trifoliate orange, who can deny it?\Yet similarly, in their earliest years, people always have the right to pursue simple dreams\Of course, family wealth does not determine everything\Many people grow up facing adversity and become independent and outstanding, which is admirable, but more often, people are just ordinary, busy with the trivialities of daily life\This way of life cuts off naive dreams of romance\And that is understandable.\To survive, to be ambitious, to sacrifice youthful fantasies for the quality of life\This is the nature of living beings: the law of the jungle, survival of the fittest\Those who are emotionally fragile will experience pain and loneliness and must face the consequences themselves: always facing constant fear, irreconcilable guilt, life often reaching a dead end\In reality, whether children come from wealthy or poor families, they can both be emotionally vulnerable, so we always hope to have someone steady and strong around us, to gain a sense of security\But people are often superficial, the world is complicated, truth and lies intertwined, the human heart unpredictable\Love, how easy is it?\Those who understand love do not wish to love lightly; those who do not understand love act recklessly. No one can ridicule another; time provides the best answers for everyone. And whether one feels guilty or not, it is as such: what is meant to be will be, what is not meant to be cannot be forced.