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Being single is not necessarily being noble.
Being single may offer more freedom, but freedom has a synonym, called loneliness.
People are not always fond of being alone; sometimes good things need to be shared, and sometimes sadness needs someone to comfort you.
The reason for the 'single noble' status arises from independence in finances, personality, and emotions.
What is independence?
Independence means needing without relying; an independent person needs the opposite sex but does not depend on them.
The colors of the world are not only black and white; there is a long gray area between black and white.
As long as you spend more time together, you can discover each other's strengths and develop affection—this is the natural process of a relationship.
'Love at first sight' and 'lifelong devotion' are unrealistic; what we need is not such impractical and illusory emotions.
Some describe interacting with the opposite sex as picking up stones on the beach, where everyone picks the one they like.
Once you find the stone you like the most, take it home and treat it well, because it is your only stone.
And remember, from then on, don't go to the beach again.
Always believe that you have already found the biggest, most beautiful, and most suitable one for you.
In interacting with the opposite sex, the most important thing is not how good he is, but how good he is to you.
If a person has excellent qualities, a perfect hundred, but of that hundred, he only gives you thirty or forty, or ten or twenty; on the other hand, another person may only score seventy or eighty, but he treats you wholeheartedly. Which one should you choose?
In fact, everyone's conditions are the same.
No matter how good you are, there will always be someone better than you.
Although you cannot be 'the best person,' you can be 'the best person for the other.'
Every boy can say: 'Although I am not the best man in the world, I am the best man in the world for you.'
The same applies to girls; this is something everyone can achieve.The most important thing in a relationship is how well he treats you, not how good he is himself. However, if a person is inherently good and is truly sincere and genuinely loves you, then you can really entrust your life to him. Nowadays, the only criterion for women to consider marriage should be whether you love him, whether he loves you, whether he is truly sincere to you, whether being with him will bring pressure or happiness, rather than what he has! True love in the human world is very rare. In a person's lifetime, it is difficult to find someone you truly love and can spend your whole life with. If you are afraid to express yourself or worry about something happening, and miss a true love that may only come once in a lifetime, it would be such a pity, so you must take the initiative and say what is in your heart. If a boy looks down on a girl for taking the initiative toward him, then that boy is not a man, but a beast. Moreover, happiness is more important than pride. If sacrificing temporary pride can bring lifelong happiness, it is definitely worth it. Be brave and speak your heart; do not hide your true feelings. Never say fate hasn't arrived—fate is everywhere, but it is fleeting. If ‘fate' is not seized in time, then there will be no ‘destiny.' Most women focus on emotional aspects in relationships, while men focus on material aspects. Boys, besides being attentive and considerate to girls, must also learn to be responsible to girls. All the attentiveness and care that could be given to all the girls in the world should be given to one girl. Also, being stern and dull will not please a girl, so you need to learn to speak sweet words to her and say nice things. Men love for sex; women have sex for love. A relationship that is easy and joyful to maintain tends to last! A relationship that is difficult and painful to maintain does not last easily, and at that point, choices should be made. We are all ordinary people, seeking ordinary but happy and joyful love. For all relationships, the process is far more important than the result. Why? Because all relationships have no absolute result. What is the result? Marriage? Will being married lead to a life of happiness and joy? It is clear that we do not evaluate the value of love by its result, nor do we measure its value by the length of time.For emotions, everything that has happened exists, and everything that has existed has value. Every part, every moment, every second of emotion in the world is worth cherishing. Marriage is the biggest gamble in life. In this infinitely long time, we still have to show each other our ugliest sides. The difference between marriage and romance is: in a romance, you can spend two hours dressing up, energetically showing affection and care to the other, and easily completing the task. But marriage cannot always maintain a high-spirited state. Therefore, marriage is a big gamble, requiring thorough preparation, careful planning, and complete trust before placing the bet, and even then, you might still lose. Thus, if before the gamble you already know that you are not willing, do not love the other very much, or do not want to spend your life with them, then this gamble is destined to be lost. Never marry for any reason other than love. The value of emotions does not lie in what you can gain from the other person; on the one hand, it is a feeling of being relied upon and needed. If someone relies on me, needs me, I will feel fulfilled. Faced with emotions, we should adopt the 'three no's' policy: First, do not rush: do not hurry to get married. Marriage is a beautiful thing, but do not rush; what is meant for you will be yours. Second, do not be afraid: do not fear giving. Both parties must work hard for a lifetime to maintain the relationship. You cannot 'obtain' a beautiful relationship; you can only find someone you love to jointly manage, nurture, and accomplish a beautiful relationship. If you are not determined to be a good man, you will not get a good woman. No bad man will have a good woman; a bad man will only have a pitiful woman; similarly, no bad woman will have a good man. Moreover, in a relationship, there is also someone willing to work hard with you, trying to make it succeed. The chance of success in this partnership is large; the key lies in whether you are willing to work hard and give. Third, do not give up. When you are hurt, face setbacks, feel disheartened or disappointed, having someone who unconditionally and always stands by your side, supports you, encourages you, consoles you, helps you rise again, and face the world anew.\This kind of power cannot be given to us by even the closest parents, nor can it be given by the best of friends. Only a beloved partner found on the journey of life can give it to us.\In fact, love is the only truly precious thing in life; it is also the only thing truly worth pursuing.\As long as you have a beloved person, you have the original driving force, and you can face the whole world.
