1. Wise people always keep their words in their hearts, while foolish people put their hearts on their tongues.
2. Everyone has five constantly spinning balls: work, health, family, friends, and soul. Work is a rubber ball; if it falls, it will bounce back. The other four are glass balls; if they fall, they break.
3. Beautiful women please the eyes; mature women please the heart.
4. Jealousy of others will not bring any benefit to yourself. Jealousy will not reduce the achievements of others either.
5. Listen attentively to what others say, and do not rush to express your own opinions.
6. Everyone has life, but not everyone understands life, let alone cherishes it. To those who do not understand life, life is a punishment.
7. Forgiving others is giving your heart space for flexibility.
8. Half of destiny is in God's hands, the other half is in your own. Success is using your half to win the half in God's hands.
9. Be grateful for regrets, as they are gifts of life; with gratitude for regrets, the road ahead will be more solid; with gratitude for regrets, future days will have fewer regrets.
10. Marriage is like picking up shells—you should not pick the biggest or the most beautiful, but the ones you like and that suit you best; once you have picked them, do not go back to the beach.
11. Do not forget what you once had; cherish what you have now; do not give up what belongs to you; keep memories of what you have lost; strive for what you want to attain; but most importantly, take good care of yourself.
12. Desire causes pain when unfulfilled; once fulfilled, desire brings boredom. Life swings between pain and boredom.
13. The furthest distance in the world is not between life and death, but the second I go online, you go offline.
14. Youth is a book once opened that cannot be closed; life is a road once taken that cannot be turned back; love is a bet once thrown that cannot be taken back.
15. Every day, take out your complaints and let them bask in the sun; your mood will not lack calcium.
16. Giving up what should be given up is unavoidable; giving up what should not be given up is incompetence; not giving up what should be given up is ignorance; not giving up what should not be given up is persistence.
17. If you are to lose, lose to pursuit; if you are to marry, marry happiness.18. What bystanders see clearly is only the bystanders' own speculation.
19. Meeting someone makes the heart float like white clouds; having them makes the heart bloom like rain-laden flowers; missing them makes the soul ravaged like quicksand. Looking back, deep feelings are like a calm blue night.
20. If you are preparing to get married, here is a very important philosophical saying: "You must tolerate and accept each other's flaws. There is no absolutely happy and perfect marriage in the world; happiness comes only from infinite tolerance and mutual respect."
21. When you advise others, if you disregard their pride, then no matter how good your words are, they will be useless.
22. Respecting others is to dignify yourself.
23. When others speak ill of us, don't be angry or sad. When they speak well of us, don't be overly happy either. In the bad, there is good; in the good, there is bad—it depends on whether you know how to use it.
24. Conscience is every person's most impartial judge. You may deceive others, but you can never deceive your own conscience.
25. It is better to forgive others yourself than to let others forgive you.
26. The three most difficult bowls of noodles in life: human-face, favor, and face-saving.
27. Silence is the best response to slander.
28. Life without friends is like life without sunshine; if you aim for flawless friendship, you may never find a friend in your lifetime.
29. Spending money before 30 brings happiness; spending money after 30 brings even greater happiness. Working hard before 30 is tough; working hard after 30 is even tougher.
30. If you have praised the dawn, then also embrace the darkness.
31. Every day you live now is the youngest day of the rest of your life.
32. The highest realm of business is to remain unaffected in the off-season and thrive even more in the peak season.
33. Do you know why I am still single? Because of the saying: The rabbit does not eat grass near its nest. Not because I am a rabbit, but because I am the grass.
34. In the workplace, a person should be like a flattened bean: no matter how anyone steps on you, the result is still the same—flat.
35. Even the tallest person sometimes needs to stand on tiptoe; even the shortest sometimes needs to bend down.
36. The hunter chasing the deer overlooks the mountains under his feet.
37. Clearly foolish, but claims to be thinking in reverse.
38. An optimistic and radiant smile not only pleases oneself but also delights everyone around.
39. Those who say money is evil are all chasing it; those who say beauty is trouble all desire it; those who say great heights are lonely are all climbing upwards.Saying that heaven is the most beautiful, yet not going there.\ 40. Troubles are a kind of spirit that we create and enjoy ourselves.\ 41. There is a saying: One who can say a hundred sentences is a writer, which is called literary talent; one who can say ten sentences is a professor, which is called knowledge; one who can say one sentence is a lawyer, which is called caution; one who leaves a sentence unsaid is a diplomat, which is called rigor; one who says one sentence out of ten is a politician, which is called cunning; one who says one sentence out of a hundred is a monk, which is called profound mystery.\ 42. Few matters on the body naturally mean less suffering; few words from the mouth naturally mean fewer troubles; little food in the stomach naturally means fewer illnesses; fewer desires in the heart naturally mean less worry.\ 43. You can use ways you don't like to earn wealth, and you can use medicine you don't believe in to cure illness, but you cannot gain happiness from someone you do not love.\ 44. There is no need to look back and see who curses you. If a mad dog bites you, will you also lie down to bite it back?\ 45. People make mistakes mostly because they overthink when they should follow their true feelings, and act emotionally when they should think.\ 46. People are always very tolerant of strangers, but very picky with those familiar.\ 47. Life is like a race; it doesn't matter if you are the first to reach the finish line, but whether you complete the whole course.\ 48. The so-called untimely love in relationships is: you hate that I was born late, I hate that you were born early; you were born before I existed, I was born when you were already old.\ 49. Bargain like a poor person, pay like a gentleman.\ 50. The mind is a daily necessity, not a decoration.\ 51. Learning to forgive is learning to obey your heart; the character "恕" (forgive) decomposes to mean "as the heart".\ 52. Even if the whole world says I am beautiful, if you say I am not, then I am not beautiful.\ 53. Defaming others is like spitting blood; it pollutes your own mouth first.\ 54. The wise adapt to the times in their plans, the foolish act against the times.\ 55. If you can let everything go, then you are free in the world.\ 56. Happiness is not destroyed by fatal mistakes, but by small mistakes repeating little by little. A fault is a temporary regret, but a missed opportunity is an eternal regret.\ 57. Love is like pi, infinite and non-repeating.\ 58. The world is a big stage, a company is a small stage, the family is the backstage, life is a continuous drama, and we are the main characters.\ 59. In handling matters, there is no need to seek merit; having no faults is already merit.One does not need to expect gratitude; having no resentment is virtue.\ 60. If you truly love someone, you must tolerate some of their flaws.\ 61. If you can shout 20 times a day, 'I don't need to worry about this little thing,' you will find that there is an incredible power in your heart. Try it; it really works.\ 62. Live with a calm heart, treat others with a heart of shame, act with your heart, and align your Bodhi mind with the Buddha mind.\ 63. It is not someone who makes me troubled, but I trouble myself with someone's words and actions.\ 64. There are two kinds of lonely people: one understands everything clearly, the other understands nothing at all.\ 65. Life has no rehearsals; every day is a live broadcast.\ 66. So-called integrity, 'qi' (spirit) is determined by 'bone.' Those with hard bones have noble spirit; those with soft bones have decadent spirit; those without bones have no spirit.\ 67. Love has no reason; only to make love last requires reasons.\ 68. True letting go is not letting go of others, but letting go of oneself.\ 69. Men are bold to go into business; women are bold to go without makeup.\ 70. Being serious can make things correct, but being attentive can make them perfect.\ 71. It is better to forgive others yourself than to wait for others to forgive you.\ 72. If we constantly tell ourselves to be happy every day, it means we are not happy.\ 73. Weather affects the body; the body determines thoughts; thoughts influence mood.\ 74. First love is art, passionate love is technique, marriage is art, and divorce is surgery.\ 75. You entrust your thinking to the TV, your connections to the phone, your legs to the car, and your health to pills.\ 76. It is not someone who makes you troubled, but you trouble yourself with someone's words and actions.\ 77. A fool's love is distributed wholesale, relying only on the brute force of 'let me love to the fullest at once'; a wise person's love is distributed retail, understanding the subtlety of 'love just a little.'\ 78. Dear, don't be angry, let's not be like the people of Earth!\ 79. Experience is distilled from pain.\ 80. Above others, treat people as people; below others, treat yourself as a person.\ 81. Life is simply being born and living on.\ 82. The truth of life is hidden in the mundane and tasteless.\ 83. Anyone who can consider others from their perspective is showing compassion.84. People cannot withstand a thousand words, trees cannot withstand a thousand cuts.
85. Hope: the person I like does not come rolling in; more hope: the person I dislike goes rolling away.
86. A birthday is a stage, a test, an opportunity. When in love, men will use this; after marriage, women will use this.
87. If a person cannot forgive others from the heart, he will never have peace of mind.
88. In being a person, character comes first, talent comes second.
89. People hate not change itself, but being changed.
90. Falling in love is not the hardest; getting along is the biggest challenge.
91. A woman's charm lies in her temperament; imperfection depends on intelligence; perfection does not depend on beauty.
92. Roads are deep scars on the earth, therefore every step in life is a subtle pain.
93. The one who shows love is the animal, the one who is loved is the plant. If love is rejected, the one who leaves is of course the animal, because plants do not grow feet to run away.
94. The height reached by stepping on garbage is the same as the height reached by stepping on gold.
95. Death is not losing life, but stepping out of time.
96. The first youth is given by God; the second youth is earned through one's own efforts.
97. Everyone is having dreams in their own world that only they can interpret.
98. Life has four test questions: studies, career, marriage, family. Only with a high average score can one pass; do not spend too much time and energy on any single question.
99. Hope is fire, disappointment is smoke, life is igniting fire while producing smoke.
100. After breaking up, you cannot be friends, because you have hurt each other; you cannot be enemies, because you have loved each other deeply, so you can only become the most familiar strangers.
