1. Recently, she suddenly decided to lose weight, so she eats very little. When she craves snacks, she restrains herself for fear of getting fat. She can't eat this or that. I feel both unable to advise her and also worried about her, so I secretly bought some healthy oat cookies, low-fat mashed potatoes, and low-fat whole-grain snacks for her online. There's no way around it—women naturally love being beautiful and slim. I can't help you lose weight or take on some of your fat, so the only thing I can do is ensure that your weight loss is healthy and happy without starving.
2. On the 6th of every month, our anniversary, I take her out for a big meal to celebrate our relationship. After being together for so long, the number of days we've been together isn't really important. What matters is that I remember the anniversary every month and put thought into celebrating—it makes her very happy. There are so many ordinary days; in fact, giving your partner a surprise is really easy. Taking her to a restaurant that's been booked in advance for a romantic meal is so simple. Girlfriends are always easy to satisfy.
3. She doesn't want much, just my everything. It doesn't matter if work is busy—as long as I spend all my free time with her. It doesn't matter if we're not wealthy—as long as I give her the remaining money. She never cares if I am the best or if I have the most—she only cares if I give her my everything without reservation. She will never love someone who has everything but doesn't belong to her. Don't ask what you should give her; the first step is your entire world.
4. These past few days, her hand was injured and she couldn't touch water, so I helped her shower. She kept complaining about wearing sandals in the rain that got her toes very dirty. I said, 'Don't move, lift your foot.' I cleaned her toes, rubbing and scrubbing them between the toes. After washing them clean, I felt very happy, even though it was always a bit troublesome.In fact, seeing how much someone loves you is really not reflected in what they will do for you, but in the humble things they will do for you that you could never do for them.\ 5. The heavy rain last night in the early morning was very scary. The wind made the window glass rattle and the door groan back and forth. My wife said she was very scared and couldn't sleep, so I kept her company all night until dawn. I don't know why she couldn't sleep, but I really couldn't sleep peacefully either. It's like back when we were separated by distance and sent messages before bed—I always had to be the last to reply, to make sure you could sleep peacefully. It's the same now. I will protect you until the end of each day.\ 6. Whenever I used to plan to go out alone with friends, she would always find a chance to leave a few curry chicken marks on my neck. When I asked her why, she said she wanted others to know I had a girlfriend, but also wanted to imply that our relationship was very close. This way, others would think twice, knowing I already had a beloved wife at home. There's no way I could juggle two relationships. That's why I never objected in the slightest—my wife has strong possessiveness and values me, so that's why she does this. I don't want her to overthink.\ 7. I am so careful, so afraid: if you wake up and don't see me, you might think I sneaked off to chase girls while you slept. Someone even saw me, happily eating a treat without brushing my teeth! This was because it was the snack breakfast she had wanted for a week. If I don't go early, there will be too many people in line. In the morning, it's mostly elderly men and women. I squeeze in among them to buy it for the lady at home.\ 8. Worrying isn't about doubting you, it's about lacking confidence in myself. It's because you are very important to me that I fear losing you, fear external temptations, fear the uncertainties of the world. My tension, my unease, my jealousy—it's not that I overthink, do you understand? What I need is a sense of security only you can give me. When you say 'rest assured,' I won't overthink or fear losing you. Love is useless without that.\ 9. If you're not going to treat this quarrel as the last one and end it, then please don't casually say the word 'break up.' No heart in the world can bear and get used to those two words forever because what she needs is cherished attention born of fear of losing, not hurt caused by never trying to hold on.\ 10. Playing psychological tests with her is really boring. For every question choice, no matter how much we go back and forth, the final answers end up the same. When two people have been together for a long time, their first impressions, interests, and habits gradually align.Then, the original purpose of playing psychological tests was to satisfy curiosity about the final answer I chose myself. Now the purpose has become: the answer itself is not important; what's important is to guess how many questions our hearts can connect on instinct.\
11. At first, I didn't use any special methods or give her gifts to pursue her, but after being with her, I would give small gifts every few days, often with little surprises, very nervous and cherishing her. I told her that someone who treats you well while pursuing you might just want to win you over. But someone who continues to treat you well after pursuing you, after the passion fades and things become ordinary, is genuinely trying to make you happy. I didn't understand why I pursued you, yet you foolishly chose me. Promises need the test of time, not just words to end a scene.\
12. Honestly, I'd rather she go out with a flat chest, no figure, wearing long shirts, long pants, and turtlenecks, not giving others a glance. But at home, it's best if she's completely naked. Whether my girlfriend has a good figure or not has nothing to do with others; it's like finding treasure, and I only like to admire it privately at home. So I particularly dislike things like short shorts or low V-necks—not because I won't let you show, but because I cannot allow others to see your exposure. I am very controlling; your sexiness should only be shown to the one you love.\
13. How can you tell if a young, beautiful girl has steadily stepped into the role of a housewife? One symptom is that when the outside world is sunny, the sun blazing, and the weather perfect, typical girls think, "I need to go out today! Take an umbrella and put on sunscreen!" But her! She excitedly runs over to tell her husband, "The weather is so nice today, we must do the laundry!"14. My relationship with her isn't perfect. I have told myself that as long as she loves me, I will continue this relationship no matter how difficult it is because after having many partners, one may become more easily moved but also more numb. Never think that the next person will be better because the best is often the one you missed. I don't want to regret it, nor do I have the courage to miss out, so I decided to quarrel and fuss with you for a lifetime.
15. You can lose your temper with anyone at any time, but the person who will always put up with your bad mood and tolerate everything about you, no matter how much upset they are, and still shamelessly comfort you, is just one person.
16. Sometimes people are very perverse. They won't fall in love with someone who treats them well, but will like someone they have to invest more in. The reason is simple: even if someone is outstanding like a superhero, I would rather choose a monster I am particularly obsessed with. Even if they have many flaws, they exactly match my heart.
17. I watch her sleep and notice that she often suddenly opens her eyes while sleeping. When she sees me, she falls asleep again with ease. When I ask her about it the next day, she says she doesn't remember and that she wasn't awake. I often wonder, if she had opened her eyes and seen someone else instead of me, would she have continued sleeping or immediately realized something was wrong? Every time I see her open her eyes, thinking she is awake and about to talk to her, she closes them again and sleeps like a pig.
18. Being disloyal to someone doesn't necessarily mean being physically unfaithful or cheating. To someone who loves you, disloyalty can be as little as a flirtatious word or a wandering glance, and it can hurt her completely. You think it doesn't count, but actually, you are just underestimating the extent to which I love you.
19. She goes to bed much earlier than I do every night. I always accompany her to sleep before getting up to do things. Every time she holds my arm tightly, afraid I will leave. Several times she woke up from nightmares and when she saw me beside her, she would hug my hand tightly again. I kiss her on the forehead, and she sleeps peacefully again. The way she sleeps is so peaceful, like a child, as if the world has nothing to do with her, leaning stubbornly on my shoulder, wanting nothing but to sleep, wanting only my protection.
20. What an important day, perfectly ended. Meeting the parents—a big thing I have always dreamed of but also feared. Today, I did it. I once promised you that meeting the parents cannot be casual. Only when I am capable of supporting you can I formally meet your mother and tell her that I am capable and will strive to make her daughter happy, so you can safely entrust me with her.After meeting the parents this time, I have not only made a promise to you but also taken responsibility for the people closest to you. You can't walk away, and I won't let you go. I am serious.
21. When quarreling over trivial matters, it's best to quickly hang up the phone before the other party, acting irrationally, says things about breaking up! Then, after an hour, call them back once they have calmed down. Talk to them about something completely unrelated like "Hey, are you coming to see me tonight?" or "Hey, where should we eat tomorrow?" Put aside your pride and act as if nothing happened. The argument will quickly dissolve. Wife, your trick is amazing.
22. To me, a perfect lover isn't about how much money she has but that she is willing to spend on me and help me save money. It isn't about how beautiful she looks but that her beauty is only shown to me. It isn't about her perfect figure but that she will enjoy lots of food with me and we'll both get chubby together. It isn't about wearing all designer brands but that she will wear couple outfits with me and hold my hand while shopping. I don't need you to be perfect, I just want your actions to show everyone that I am your one true love, and no one else can touch me.
23. I always get nervous before giving gifts, even though I don't know why I'm nervous at all.
24. Today I suddenly asked you, after being together for so long, do you feel tired of me? You answered seriously: Why would I be tired of you? People are always looking for someone to rely on. Now that they have it, why would they go looking for another? You can try new flavors of food casually; if you don't like them, you can go back to the original taste next time. But people are different.
25. Love is not just thinking of the need for someone when you are lonely, but when I am looking at you face to face, I still miss you very much.
