Regarding emotional issues, everyone please help.
I have liked a girl since my first year of high school, and now I'm about to enter my third year. Back in my first year, I treated her really well. My classmates could all tell that I liked her, and she got along really well with me too. But when I chatted with her on QQ, she was sometimes cold and sometimes warm, and sometimes she would take ages to reply, with me being the one to initiate conversations most of the time. In my second year, I felt like I couldn't win her over, so I didn't treat her as well as before and rarely approached her. Until the next semester, a female classmate who usually cycled the same way as her didn't attend the evening self-study session, and she asked me to give her a ride home (I ride an electric bike). I gave her rides home almost every day for nearly two months, and I started to feel a little hopeful again, so I began to treat her well once more. Yesterday, I invited her to watch a movie, and she agreed. We went to the cinema to see Furious 6, and in the theater, we didn't do anything—just sat next to each other. Due to the timing of the tickets being inconvenient—seeing a 4 PM movie at 6 PM—we couldn't go hang out afterward, and she said she had to go home to eat. That's basically it. We're about to enter our final year, which is a time to focus and work hard. I won't confess my feelings now; I'll wait until after graduation to decide whether to tell her. Considering how she is, do you guys think I could actually win her over?
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In my senior year of high school, I also thought we couldn't date. She and I were aiming for the same university. Why say that there is no hope after graduation?
Then you just wait until you graduate from the third year of high school, unless you can get into a university.
I think you have to pursue relentlessly, clinging and persisting. To be honest, after graduating from the third year of high school, there is no hope at all (this point must be noted), so you should pursue well during this year. I think the pressure on students this year is very high, so using some tricks while pursuing can help you win them over.
A high school student? Don't pursue. It's useless, she feels you have no money, right? If you, the original poster, want to pursue, then I'll tell you, she has a place for you in her heart.
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