It's the first time I've felt so confused.
Today I went to a technical school to register, and they politely told me that they were no longer accepting students and suggested I go elsewhere. When I got home, I checked and found that this was the only technical school available. Then I saw my parents and they said maybe I should go to Hunan to find my cousin or go into phone repair! In a few years, I could be my own boss. Thinking about the month I worked, I feel scared in retrospect, always trying to save face for others, and in the end I realized that the person talking behind my back was him—maybe I just don't know how to deal with people! Going to another city, seeing my parents borrowing money everywhere, and being asked what I want to study makes me feel really upset. I don't know how to handle relationships when I go to work; I feel so confused! My life feels so confusing; I hope someone experienced can tell me how to handle relationships with others.
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Be a little modest, a little gentle. Or simply, like me, be a bit introverted; your relationships with others may not be very good, but they won't be too bad either.
In a few days, I will go to a technical school in Guangzhou. Recently, several technical schools have also called. My brother only scored a little over 300 in the high school entrance exam, yet there were technical schools wanting him. By the way, how many points did you score to the point that you can't even find a technical school?
About the first floor. Sigh, wages for workers in Shenzhen are not low; my sister works in Shenzhen. The wages are not low, but the work is hard and often requires overtime. If you really can't find a technical school, you might as well go help your cousin sell phones! You can learn repairs while selling. In a few years, you can open your own phone shop and both sell and repair phones yourself. Right now, repairing phones is still very profitable.
Let me teach you as a brother. As a man, be ruthless; don't pretend to be weak when it's unnecessary, and be a bit cunning when there's nothing to do. Usually, slack off half the time at work, put interests first, and never give your all if there's no gain. On the surface, say that loyalty and comradeship are important, but when it comes to a critical moment, if something is lost, it's just lost. Be ruthless, prioritize interests, and never feel regret; if one day you lose, just mess up the situation. Playing dumb is childish. At least it can help ease the situation. Also, brothers can be used to create trouble—for example, if your colleague has a dispute with your best brother, take half the side of the other person and half act helpless. In the end, apart from yourself and your interests, trust no one.
There are no forever friends, only forever interests. Talking about brotherhood and loyalty is just foolish; if one doesn't look out for oneself, who will? Even if being scorned by others, this life will not have been in vain.
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