Uh... emotional expert come in
Today, a female classmate who was in the same class with me throughout junior high and high school gave me a piece of paper and asked me to guess who it was written for. The content is as follows: (Actually, you) don't understand me. If it weren't for that incident, maybe... I've heard that in love, if a guy doesn't take the initiative, he will miss out. Some things, once missed, are just missed. We all need to be well... \ I always feel like it's me (uh, not being narcissistic). What should I do? Please, emotional experts, give me an answer. I'm willing to offer everything I have.
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You reply to her: Being passive is actually good... (You need to know what that matter is? The main characters!)
Girls will always give you some strange questions, but be very careful! When they say things like 'I'm not talking about you' or 'If it were you,' you must not take it lightly. Sometimes their intentions are clear, but you are kept in the dark! Take this note, for example—its tone is clearly serious, so it's definitely not as simple as 'just guessing.' A serious note like this wouldn't be used to joke with you. If you guess correctly, there's a high chance that the subject is you. Why? Think about it: the note is addressed to a guy. How could a girl casually show a note about 'coming clean' with a guy to some other guy? Everyone is afraid of people talking too much, so it's impossible to make you 'just guess' so easily.
Since that's the case, the first thing you should do is sit down quietly and carefully think through all your interactions with her. Be thorough: consider whether you have ever offended her, or unintentionally hurt her. You must seriously think through the details of your major interactions with her. If you're sure you haven't hurt her, then everything I said before was nonsense. If you have figured something out, I think you should have your answer by now. P.S.: Learn to reflect and learn to yield.
How she looks doesn't matter much, generally just let it go, but if she has charisma, you can consider it. If she's a beauty and has some integrity, then marry her. If she's a 'dinosaur' (ugly), just go with your gut feeling. I'm just looking for someone to sit next to, good-looking, well-developed, and to touch during class...
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