???? When people come to this world, there will always be a lot of dissatisfaction and unfairness; there will be a lot of loss and a lot of envy. You envy my freedom, and I envy your constraints; you envy my car, and I envy your house; you envy my work, and I envy that you always have time to rest every day.
Perhaps, we are all far-sighted and always live in looking up to others; perhaps, we are all short-sighted and often ignore the happiness around us.
In fact, there are no two identical faces in the world. As long as you observe carefully, there will always be subtle differences. They are both animals, the rabbit is petite and the green ox is tall; they are both birds, the eagle flies high and the purple swallow returns low. People will always have differences in intelligence and luck; they will always be constrained by the environment and reality; there will always be someone who can solve a math problem in seconds when you are cutting a plate of fruit; there will always be someone who will reflect on the gains and losses of the day when you are asleep; there will always be someone who can run faster than you...
It is the unevenness that makes up the beautiful scenery in this world.
Bian Zhilin said: You stand on the bridge and look at the scenery, and the people watching the scenery are watching you upstairs.
?? Yes, walking in the ups and downs of life, when you envy others living in high-rise buildings, maybe the people huddled in the corner are envying you for having a thatched house that can shelter from the wind; when you envy others sitting in luxury cars and are frustrated that you can walk on the ground, maybe the people lying in the hospital bed are envying you for being able to walk freely...
Many times, we often don't know that when we appreciate others, we also become the scenery in other people's eyes.
In fact, life is like a heavy book. Some books have no protagonists because we have neglected ourselves; some books have no clues because we have lost ourselves; some books have no content because we have buried ourselves...
In life, we do not need to embarrass ourselves or question ourselves. Sometimes, we cannot understand or learn something well. It is just that our perspectives of thinking and accepting problems are different. Everyone has their own tears to wipe, and everyone has their own way to go. Just remember: when you are cold, add a coat to yourself; when you are hungry, buy yourself a bread; when you are in pain, give yourself a strength; when you fail, give yourself a goal; when you fall, get up in pain, give yourself a tolerant smile and keep moving forward, that is enough!
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Facing the sun, don't care about the warmth of spring and the blooming of flowers, just face it happily, because, through the glass window filled with sunlight, looking back suddenly, are you not the scenery in other people's eyes?
