No matter how happy a life is, there are still shortcomings, and no matter how miserable a life is, there is happiness. To live a free and unrestrained life, you must learn to look down on shortcomings and go with the flow. You can win as many people as you can accommodate in your heart. The more things you think about, the more happiness you can get. Look at human affairs indifferently, and be free and unrestrained in the world. Forgiveness is letting go of others and being kind to oneself. Forgiving others means leaving a smile to oneself. Forgiveness is an open umbrella under which we enjoy the warm sunshine. To live a free and unrestrained life, you only want to pretend to be happy in your heart. Life is very simple. Don't make life a complicated thing. If you like it, fight for it; if you get it, cherish it; if you think it is happy, go for it; if you think it is worth it, wait for it; if you think it is happy, then cherish it.
Only if you can tolerate the world will the world accept you. Society is a network of interconnected people, and no one can succeed alone, so you must remember to be considerate of the people around you at all times; know that children must have a shade of tolerance to grow up, and avoid the bitter consequences caused by harsh criticism; know that the world of two people must be based on tolerance, so that they can taste the happiness of marriage. Tolerating others is equivalent to tolerating yourself. Tolerance also creates the beauty of life. Let us quietly appreciate and feel the power of tolerance, and let the wisdom of tolerance wipe away the dust in our hearts. If we are more tolerant, our lives will be better. The greatest charm of a person is to have a sunny mentality. Time passes quickly and appearance grows old quickly. The world's view of life is nothing more than a blind man touching an elephant. Viewed horizontally, it looks like a ridge and a peak on the side, with different heights near and far. I don't know the true face of Mount Lu, just because I am in this mountain. We shook hands constantly and had to let go often. With nothing in mind, you can sit calmly and walk calmly, thus giving rise to elegance. The appearance is natural and flashy outside the body, and the heart is full of sunshine, which is the eternal beauty. An elegant person who is both eye-catching and heart-pleasing is a charming person.
The world is as big as the stage of life, and life is as broad as it is. There is no need to look up to others, you are also the scenery, be yourself. Use simplicity as the background of life, look at the mountains as mountains, look at the water as water, smile warmly, and believe that there is always a smiling face blooming for us, and there is always a scenery that will be beautiful because of us. Don't stay in the past, don't recall the past, time bites people, if you don't leave, you will be covered with scars. Make everything simpler, strive for it if you like it, cherish it if you get it, forget it if you miss it, only if you can tolerate the world will the world accept you. You only live once, do what you want to do, go where you want to go, and love who you should love. Cut out a period of time, write a bright book, and look for the spring in your life. Learn to be tolerant, be good at discovering the beauty of things, and feel the beauty of life. Face life with an open mind and an open mind, so that the originally dull, boring, and exciting life can exude charming brilliance. Tolerance is the courage to face life optimistically. It can drive away the pain and tears in life, and it can spread the joy and smile of the soul.
In life, when many things are gained, they are also lost. When I was a child, I longed to grow up, but when I grew up, I found that I had lost my childhood; when I grew up, I longed for sweetness, but after entering the siege, I often missed the freedom I once had; the journey of life has infinite scenery, but my heart can never return to the beginning. Tolerance is a kind of light of kindness, a supreme blessing, a relief for others, and a kindness to oneself. Only how many people can a person's mind accommodate, can he win many people. Tolerance is not restricted. It nourishes the earth like the drizzle from the sky, bringing double blessings: blessings to the giver and blessings to the recipients. If life is just a beautiful dream, I would like to be a drop of dew in the morning. Although it is small, it is not cowardly, because it knows that the purity of the world comes from the transparency of the soul; although it is simple, it is not humble, because it understands that the value of life lies in the slippage of a moment, the excitement of a moment, and the eternity of a moment.
Life needs to be soaked in suffering. Without pain, life will be less colorful and heavy. When loss fades, the pain becomes lighter; when possessions are valued, happiness increases in value.Only the flowers blooming in the wound are the scenery that accompanies us moving forward silently. Don't worry about small grievances. Sadness is just an embellishment of your mood, not a shackle that restricts your soul. What should be remembered, carve it on the stone tablet of the soul; what should be forgotten, blend it into the tears of catharsis. Only when you learn to be tolerant can you have enough energy to walk the path of life. Tolerance is a broader life space. Tolerance is happiness. When we forgive others, we not only give others opportunities, but also gain their trust and respect. We can also live in harmony with others.
Tolerance is a virtue. Treating others with a tolerant attitude and repaying society with a broad mind is a virtuous cycle that benefits others, oneself, and society. After Qianfan has passed, you will understand that the most beautiful thing in life is as indifferent as an orchid, which does not compete with the flowers but is fragrant and timeless. It is as light as water, which is colorless and tasteless but is the source of life. If you live a light life, your heart will not be tired. In the clear and light time, your heart will bloom into a light flower, blooming in life. Indifference does not necessarily mean building fences, farming, and living in seclusion in the mountains and forests. It means being able to calm down even in the turmoil of the world. Only when your mind is calm can you hear your own voice, stop and laugh at the wind and clouds, and be indifferent in the heart of the stormy life. Learning to be tolerant means that you have truly understood the meaning of life, and you will be able to stand in a higher position than others, and you will see problems and handle things more thoroughly and effectively than others. Learning to be tolerant means that you will be open-minded because you know the incomplete nature of life. It will make you considerate of human weaknesses and get out of the inherent blind spots of life, and you will become a wise man in life. The long road of life, where is the end? How can we see the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? Raise the wings of your dreams and take young steps. "No pain, no gain." As long as you are willing to put in the hard work and plant the seeds of hope, perhaps the fruits of victory will be even greater for you. Whether you return with a full load or empty hands, this place will confirm the footprints of your growth.
Only if you can tolerate the world will the world accept you
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A good post, a quality post can withstand the test and scrutiny of outside comments, because such posts have sufficient reasons to respond to every doubt raised by commenters, rather than hastily deleting someone's reply with the aim of keeping the "post clean." At the very least, they reacted thoughtfully because they carefully read your post, which is undoubtedly like pouring cold water on the commenters. You must understand one thing: whenever you put effort into posting, please also be prepared to calmly handle the responses from others.
I've said enough. Xiao Dian and Yuan, is such a small matter really important? The 7 Forum is a stage of youth; everyone here is basically the same age. We know this is about an expressive personality, a beautiful encounter, but behind the noisy youth in the interactions of 7-friends, there's a trace of innocence. Everyone comes to the 7 Forum mobile game forum with a sincere heart to make friends. It's a small community, but a peaceful little village. Often we want to bond and create beautiful friendships and memories. But sometimes, distance still feels far. There are countless ways to communicate, and arguments may have just one reason: you haven't yet found the proper way to communicate with others. In truth, the best way to interact on the forum isn't anything else but replying to posts. Replying not only expresses your attitude toward the post but also shows respect to the original poster, a kind of appreciation for other's kindness. As for other misunderstandings or disputes, shouldn't one yield a little?! When replying to posts, start from the heart! With three or five friends, building threads under posts, whether composing poems, joking around, or discussing everything from the Middle East to North Korea to Japan, isn't it fun? After several rounds, posts are no longer just posts; they become witnesses to growing feelings, the strings touched by certain characters, and shared memories among everyone. (Ah, damn, Qian-ge's skill in peacemaking and chatter has finally improved to a new level. (≧▽≦)/~) This is a reply I thought about for a long time and finally sent just now with a grateful heart, a bit of peacemaking, and giving someone a way down. Yuan, you actually casually cleared the replies! Qian's feelings just now turned into wanting to know your response.
If you really ignore the first floor's reply, you need to give everyone a perfect explanation. Otherwise, if you abuse forum management for personal gain, you should take responsibility. It's that simple; a man can only be responsible, he cannot be willful.
Is that necessary... I'm not angry at all, I'm just explaining my point of view. Qian, why do you always think about disharmonious things?
Oh, it's not a big deal... I like the people here in these 7 forums, which is why I am confiding my feelings to you, the original poster, without holding anything back. Hehe~
You understand nothing. Qian just typed for half a minute and was only trying to mediate; you call this a sacred piece of advice! He is also a moderator of the literary section, and we are colleagues. You are Qian's good friend, but if someone hasn't done anything too wrong, you can't take sides with anyone, otherwise it wouldn't be fair!! Shouldn't one mediate for the sake of the forum's stability and harmonious development? Xiaodian is overthinking. Don't you know Qian's nickname: 'Chatterbox Qian'?
Just now, at the KTV here. Heard Chou Hua-jian's →_→ 'Friend' Friends walk together for a lifetime, you will understand those days...
Forget it, I didn't even care. Why all that passion... always loving the excitement, don't think I don't know you.
Xiaodian, this is your mistake. Qian is the most generous, never doing anything excessive to friends, and always goes all out to help whenever possible. Even if there are minor losses and small sacrifices, they are always proven with loyalty to show my sincerity. You should understand this best on the forum. But Qian is also the most petty, for example, the behavior of the original poster now is too much. 'The scariest thing in the world is being serious.' Qian just likes being serious too much, which is both a virtue and a flaw that can easily annoy people.
Simple: Everything goes away with a single click, it's all over! Don't dwell on the past; things can't always be about right or wrong! So let everything go with the wind, isn't that better! End of explanation!
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