You have enough reasons to admire people who get up early every day. If you don't believe it, try it yourself, and after doing it, you'll find that many people admire you.\
Don't be obsessed with the internet. Absolutely not. Never.\
During your student years, there are many ways to spend money. For the sake of your family and your own future, never spend money recklessly.\
If your personality makes many people keep their distance from you, then your personality is a failure. The success of personality lies in its ability to attract, not repel.\
Many things, when you look back on them later, will seem insignificant. So, no matter how angry or upset you were at the time, tell yourself it doesn't need to be that way.\
You need to study, but you also need to rest. Learn to balance work and rest.\
In high school, you have enough space to endure failures and setbacks. Therefore, you really should explore the difference between confidence and pride; it's something you can use for a lifetime.\
Don't make final judgments about yourself or others. This is very important. What you see and hear may only be one side of the story.\
If you realize that for a long time you've been eating alone in the cafeteria or studying alone, don't mind it. Being alone in high school is normal.\
When others inform you of something, say thank you. When they don't, don't blame them, because those things are actually things you should figure out yourself.\
Don't casually say things like "I'll handle it" before you're sure you have the ability to do so.\
Dignity is the most important thing, but during your student years, you should understand how to use this time to train yourself, so that your dignity can develop great endurance. No one will keep it safe for you except yourself. Society is a place that loves to crush people's dignity.\
Whether you are a man or a woman, if you still overly value appearance during your student years, it might not harm you immediately, but sooner or later it will.\
High school may have real love, but only possibly. Most of the time, people are together because they envy others being in relationships or for other reasons.\
You should love your school. No matter how bad or how good others say it is, it is your home. How can someone who doesn't love their home work well at home?\
If you take staying awake in class as a form of training and you succeed, then you will become very strong.\
Don't be afraid of embarrassment; it is a successful attempt. Don't laugh at those who embarrass themselves on stage.\
Look for hope in despair.You do need to learn to be strategic, but always remember, the only way to succeed is through strength.\ When facing unfairness, don't complain; instead, work hard and strive for the fairness that suits you best.\ Life has many facets, so don't get angry at new things you don't like. It doesn't matter; just focus on being your best self.\ Start training your calmness during your student years. This is a skill. When facing major issues, being able to stay calm and think of solutions quickly is impressive.\ Never mock your teachers for being monotonous because one day reality will make you pay for such foolishness.\ Don't fantasize about being the teacher's favorite, because you'll find that not every teacher will overly care about you. Everything relies on self-discipline.\ You may dislike certain things, but you should learn to accept them if you cannot change them.\ Regarding strangers, either treat them as a blank slate or as your friends. In any case, don't treat them as enemies, even if you hear many bad rumors about them.\ Make sure to take time each day to exercise. The benefits are many.\ Don't spend too much thought on your clothing or appearance.\ Never wish to please everyone. The real excitement comes from making decisions amidst opposing and supporting voices.\ Try to work hard and don't give up before you even start.\ Don't always think about whether you will succeed. Once you make a choice, pursue it through wind and rain.\ Regret is a spirit-draining emotion. Regret is a bigger loss than loss itself, a bigger mistake than a mistake. So don't regret.\ Life is indeed hard. We must endure various external pressures, and even more, confront our inner confusions. In painful struggles, if someone gives you a look of understanding, you feel a warmth of life. Perhaps just a brief glance is enough to inspire you deeply.\ Everyone has potential energy, but it is easily hidden by habits, obscured by time, and eroded by laziness.\ Believe in the power of time; it can dilute many things.\ As we grow older, we find that right and wrong become less obvious. This is not wrong; it's a fact, and it cannot be changed. So don't haggle over small matters—it's useless.\ Cherish every friend. Friends are your second harbor aside from your family.When you are bored, don't forget your friends. When your friends are bored, don't forget that you are their friend. Always be optimistic; when you encounter setbacks or difficulties, try to lighten your mind and look at things from another perspective—bad things may turn into good things. There is no need to feel inferior; we are just playing the roles that suit us. Not everyone can be the protagonist; even if you are a supporting character, you should carry yourself proudly and perform your role. No one likes studying, but it is something we must do at this age. Everyone goes through it, and no one can be exempt. Don't feel that studying is boring, because you will find that the work you do when you grow up can also be boring. You often do not have immunity to this article, and what you often experience is just 'three minutes of enthusiasm.' Therefore, it is recommended that you read this article often, or read it again when you feel you cannot persist, and list the points that you are not yet able to achieve. Treat them as mottos for your current life and study, gradually improving yourself.
Advice, for the you from your student days
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I don't know why it can't be displayed, the attachment has been deleted!
What kind of attachment is this?
It's just a picture!
Then OP, post a cloud drive link.
"No one likes studying, but this is something we have to do at our age. Everyone is like this, no one can escape. Don't think studying is boring, because you will find that the work you do when you grow up is also boring." I agree with this statement the most. While studying, I longed for work, thinking that work would be easier than studying: after all, you don't need to use your brain, and it doesn't matter if the work requires more physical effort; but once you actually enter the workforce, perhaps under heavy work pressure, most people start recalling their school life: going to and from school with a regular schedule every day, though mentally tiring, is still easier than a life-or-death workload. And so this dilemma repeats itself. Sometimes, I really can't understand what kind of psychology this is. Whether you call it laziness, avoidance, or self-sabotage, none of these can fully explain this phenomenon. It's incomprehensible and hard to see through. Humans really are a very strange kind of creature.
This is exactly what I think... Maybe I am wrong.
Indeed!
I saw the content above in a book called 'My Drifting Life in High School'.
Good, good, really good.
There are many people today...
Passing by without pictures, just helping to support
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