A man should be grateful for the woman who stayed by his side in his twenties.

Because men in their twenties are at the lowest point in their lives: no money, no power, no career,\ while women in their twenties are at the brightest time of their lives.\ Men in their twenties are still very ‘naive',\ while women in their twenties are very radiant;\ Men in their twenties are at the lowest point of a lifetime,\ while women in their twenties are in the prime of their lives;\ Men in their twenties do not appreciate things,\ while women in their twenties need to be cherished the most;\ Men in their twenties are extremely insecure, so they are very arrogant,\ while women in their twenties are trying to build their confidence;\ Men in their twenties do not understand love, cannot love but need love,\ while women in their twenties need to be loved and cared for, yet have to give care and affection;\ Men in their twenties have no money, no career, but have desires,\ while women in their twenties can only guard their own youthful time which cannot come back;\ Men in their twenties begin to consciously change, become a bit more steady, a bit more mature, handle difficulties by themselves instead of depending on others, are eager to go out and venture, eager to make themselves more experienced! No longer in sportswear, but in suits and ties, walking with their head held high, feeling like a real man!\ While women in their twenties are like flowers, naturally blooming, even if not perfectly beautiful, still captivating, with every gesture trying to be charming, yet still acting playful like children, but knowing to care for someone besides themselves!\ Men in their twenties sometimes take money very seriously, because they are no longer under their parents' care and must earn money with their own hands. When spending parents' money, it may not feel much, but using their own money to support themselves makes them feel the pain and realize how hard making money really is! Sometimes they also view money as light, earning money and thinking life is just so-so, buying gifts for family, buying gifts for the woman they love, feeling happiness while spending!\ Women in their twenties want to spend money, so many beautiful clothes are sparkling in front of them, looking at themselves and wanting to buy them. They are young—how many years does youth last? Youthful bloom is only for a moment. Sometimes women wear beautiful clothes not out of vanity for others to see, but to appreciate themselves, just to comfort themselves! Their hands move in thought, but thinking about how hard men work for money, they pull their hands back, feeling bittersweet!At that moment, one might want to marry a wealthy person. Although it feels unfair to oneself, it seems like the rest of life wouldn't be so hard. You just think about it, then look at the clothes you like, smile, and move on! \ \ Men in their twenties want a good job, because only then do they feel they have prospects for the future, only then will they have the ability to support a family, and only then can they give happiness to the woman they love. Sometimes they feel very, very tired, facing all sorts of things, having to do both genuine and fake tasks, feeling like giving up. But thinking that they are still young and have a long way to go, they persevere! When unable to sleep at night, they think, why work so hard? Is it for oneself? For family? For the one they love? Thinking this way, they eventually fall asleep! \ \ Women in their twenties also want a good job. On one hand, they feel they can be independent, not constrained by men, and on the other hand, they feel they won't put a burden on the one they love! Though work can be tiring and they may complain, they also feel it's okay; women may think that this could make things easier for men! Since they chose this man, they should do something for him! \ \ Men in their twenties are very confused about love. Love sometimes feels so illusory, and at other times so real, leaving them unsure whether to trust it or not. The one they love can fall for someone else overnight, while the person they don't love keeps waiting. But one day, they realize that the one who loves them has also fallen for someone else; the person they thought they loved, they suddenly realize at one moment that they actually didn't, it was just long-standing emptiness and loneliness. Loneliness turns out to be so frightening, like the emotional sediment before pain, unable to be expressed or told by anything or anyone, until finally erupting one day! \ \ Women in their twenties no longer believe in love. In the face of reality, romance and money are always equal; without money, there's no romance, and without romance, there's no love. If a relationship survives after losing both money and romance, that is family! Saying 'pitiful' or 'compassion' might be the most hurtful words, but reality is always reality, and no one can change that! Women understand these truths in their hearts, but even if they say they don't love, in their hearts they still do! \ \ Men in their twenties think of marriage as just a thought; it can't be realized. It is conflicting and complicated. They want to explore the world, and marriage would be a restraint;Afraid of losing freedom, even more afraid of not being able to support a family, maybe secretly thinking there could be someone better and more suitable.

Women in their 20s want to get married. A woman wanting to get married is not about tying down a man, but about giving the most perfect years of herself to the person she loves most, just to have memories, just to avoid forgetting. A woman wants to encourage a man when he is most down, comfort him when he is in the most pain, and give him warmth when he is most lonely. It turns out a woman's thoughts are always very simple!

Men, remember to always be grateful to the woman who was by your side in your 20s! At least during your darkest times, she gave you support, gave you love, and gave you warmth!