Once I understand it, I won’t lose my temper anymore.

An old monk was taking care of a pot of orchids. He treated these elegant orchids with great care, often watering them, weeding, and killing pests. (br) Under the old monk's meticulous care, the orchids grew very healthy and looked delicate and charming. (br) One time, the old monk had to go out to meet friends, so he entrusted the pot of orchids to a young monk, asking him to help take care of it. (br) The young monk was very responsible and cared for the orchids with the same dedication as the old monk, and the orchids grew robustly. (br) One day, after the young monk watered the orchids and placed them on the windowsill, he went out on an errand. (br) Unexpectedly, a heavy rainstorm came, and the strong wind knocked over and damaged the orchids. (br) When the young monk rushed back and saw the ground covered with broken branches and wilted leaves, he was very heartbroken and also afraid that the old monk would blame him. (br) A few days later, the old monk returned, and the young monk explained what had happened to the orchids and prepared to accept the scolding. (br) But the old monk said nothing. (br) The young monk felt very surprised because, after all, those orchids were the old monk's most beloved. (br) The old monk smiled lightly and said, “I grow orchids not to get angry.” (br) A simple sentence, yet it reveals a broad-minded attitude toward life. (br) We work not to get angry, and we love not to get angry. (br) Once the things we've devoted ourselves to cannot be recovered, there's no need to resent or regret. (br) Cherish them while you have them, and face their loss calmly; be true to your heart, and that will be enough. (br) If you harbor hatred, life will be hateful everywhere. (br) If you are grateful, gratitude will be everywhere. (br) If you grow, growth can be found in everything. (br) It's not the world that chooses you; it's you who chooses this world. (br) Since there is nowhere to hide, it's better to smile foolishly. (br) Since there is nowhere to escape, it's better to be joyful. (br) Since there is no pure land, it's better to calm your mind. (br) Since things don't go as desired, it's better to let go. (br) Have a broad mind, (br) handle matters calmly, (br) be kind to others, (br) and see things to the core! (br) This article is very good and makes a lot of sense! (br) I send it to every good friend around me!