[Friendship] Indispensable Friends
1. Friends Who Help You Succeed\They constantly motivate you and help you see your own strengths.\These friends can also be called mentor-type friends. They may not necessarily be your teachers or elders, but they certainly have rich experience in certain areas and can provide you with advice on career, family, social interactions, and more. Having this type of friend in your life can become your greatest psychological support and often become an "idol" who can influence you.\2. Friends Who Support You\Always stand by you and praise you in front of others.\These friends can be described as "you help me, I help you," encouraging each other and becoming stepping stones in each other's growth. In a person's development, support and encouragement from friends are the most precious. When you encounter setbacks, these friends often help relieve part of your psychological pressure, and their trust acts as a "stimulant" for your spirit.\3. Friends with Shared Interests\They share similar interests with you and are the ones you are most likely to get along with.\Being with them creates a kind of psychic connection, commonly referred to as "tacit understanding." You will often feel touched at heart because you think and speak similarly. Interacting with them helps you continuously affirm yourself, and you can share your interests, life goals, and preferences with them. This stable sense of "sharing" provides psychological security, making it easier for you to achieve your ideals and enjoy growth.\4. Friends Who Connect People\After meeting you, they quickly introduce you to like-minded people.\These friends are "helpful" type friends. They may not be very visible when you are successful, but they appear timely when you are down. They are always willing to give you practical support, help you see hope and opportunities, and provide continuous positive psychological encouragement.\5. Friends Who Cheer You Up\Fun friends who help you relax.\Some friends are the first people we want to confide in when we have worries or troubles. These friends are excellent listeners, helping you relax. In their presence, you feel no psychological pressure and can vent your frustrations, regaining a balanced mindset.\6. Friends Who Broaden Your Horizons\They expose you to new perspectives and opportunities.\These friends are also indispensable in life.They can be called your 'encyclopedia.' These kinds of friends are knowledgeable, broad-minded, and well-connected, and they help you gain many different psychological experiences, making you someone who stands tall and sees far.\7. Friends who guide you\They are good at helping you clarify your thoughts. Seek them out when you need guidance and advice.\These friends are 'beacons.' Everyone has difficulties and needs, and when you find it hard to resolve them on your own, these friends can always consider your problems most promptly and seriously, giving you the most appropriate advice. When you feel anxious or confused about making choices, it might be helpful to talk to them, as they may help you better organize your emotions, understand yourself, and clarify your direction.\8. Friends who accompany you\Whenever there is news, good or bad, you are always the first to tell them. They are always with you.\These friends have hearts as broad as the sea and mountains. No matter when you reach out to them, they will receive you warmly and consistently support you. They are friends who make you feel fulfilled and at peace; sometimes they don't need to say much, just quietly accompanying you can soothe your mood.
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Which type of friend are you willing to be to me?
Graduated... A year ago, our class was split. That damn school, they only split us into our class and the neighboring Class Two. I'm so reluctant to leave. The promised ultimate Class One doesn't even have a graduation photo now...
I still have my elementary school graduation photo!
It feels like elementary school wasn't as intense as it feels now...
At least when I was a child, there weren't so many troubles; it was so pure.
The black elementary school.
Laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, fight when you want to fight
Hope is about having the same ideals, as long as you get along, that's enough...
I have one virtue: as long as someone is sincere with me and not a scumbag, I won't refuse anyone.
Eat meat together, hang out with girls together, share money together, live in a house together... Without meat, we starve together; without girls, how to hook up; without money, we are poor together; without money, friends to wander the world with.
I've never been in a fight and I'm about to enter high school... I feel unwilling.
This is fine, now hand over your money.
Good student,,,
Yuanyuan, just give in to me.
I'm going~
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Anything is fine, I can't run away to there #_#
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