Quite realistic @(￣-￣)@

Recently, I've been unemployed and idle, so I happened to get in touch with an old classmate. She said she wanted to find a boyfriend. Since she had worked in sales before and was good at interpersonal relationships, she wanted me to help her find someone. After a bit of small talk, I said that there are actually many ways to say goodbye to being single: through colleagues, friends and family introductions, matchmaking events, and so on. She said that her family had also introduced some people, but she always felt they didn't meet her requirements.\Suddenly, I became interested and asked her: What are your requirements? She said she had set a framework for herself: the education level must be a bachelor degree or above; must have ability. I asked: What do you mean by ability? She explained: the ability to make money. When I asked further, it turned into some specific conditions, such as: good family background, older than herself, a monthly income of 10,000–20,000 yuan (Chengdu)...\I was shocked by the list she gave, and cautiously asked: Aren't these requirements too high? She said that in Chengdu, these conditions are quite easy to meet. So I could only use the excuse that ‘I don't have such outstanding people around me' and stopped pursuing the topic.\It's not that I've never introduced a boyfriend or girlfriend to my classmates, but this is the first time someone has so openly demanded the other person to have a 'good family background, strong earning ability, and a monthly income of 10,000–20,000 yuan.' Honestly, I admire those girls who casually demand that the guy 'has a car and a house,' because they have such forward-looking vision. The ancients have long told us, 'poor couples suffer in all things.' There's nothing shameful about wanting someone with a car and a house, and not having them does not mean you hold the moral high ground. If a couple has no house or car and earns around 5,000 yuan a month after necessary expenses, what quality of life can they really have? Pursuing a high-quality life is one of the basic human desires, and there's no need to be ashamed for requiring 'a car and a house.'\But does having a car and a house necessarily form the foundation for love or marriage?
\At least, I don't think so~